• Andrea Yager

    Internet Gazillionaire. Based on a True Story.

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      • Nov 1st, 2007
      • Rolling out a Business - Small, Medium, & Large size Ventures.

        Posted in Online Business, Outsourcing, Personal Baby Steps, Products / Services I bought - Honest Reviews, by admin
      • 4 Comments

    • Here is a quick overview of whats going on, and will try to build a better picture soon.
       
      At Rent A Coder I have a project in the works which includes the graphics work for 4 websites + I am nearing decision on a 2nd open project bid for product review writing. We did find some local talent to help with editing materials but no one here really grasps marketing on the web, so outsourced!
       
      Some ’smaller time’ automatic revenue systems we are working on has encouraged me to make some purchases to really get into the nitty gritty of mastering a niche without both being an expert or devoting full time to it. One such product is how to create a product which feeds to a desperate market, and since we have 2 such niches, I made the plunge. Check it out. It didnt hurt that this ebook was recommended by some of the best in the biz! My initial findings is that there is desperate and then there is desparate - and can you compare someone who cant get a checking account open to someone who is suffering from a medical condition?? She is convinced yes.
       
      Our ‘Medium size’ ventures are not far off from our smaller ones, except that they are catering to much bigger markets, offer much more combination of IM skills to include data acquisition + upsells + backend sales + blogging + oh yeh - SEO and Traffic! We will get to this… when it is not 3 am and I have to be with my daughter at the hospital in 5 hours from now
       
      ‘Larger’ ventures? My angel is a lead genius, and with the launch of Lead Supreme, I am having a hard time containing myself. Lead Supreme is a heavy duty lead generation software that basically offers landing pages that pre populate the fields and based on demographics, and other behavioural stuff, will offer the ‘lead’ relevant offers. You create the relationship with the companies that feed the offers, you keep the lead, and if you know what you are doing.. Ka Ching! I would say that most people convinced to buy along the regular IM style launches and pitches will be waking up not long from now $4500 poorer and wondering what oh what went wrong. In the wrong hands.. this is just a HUGE waste of money. However, imagine if you know a thing or two about leads, and you know a lot more about CPA (cost per action) companies, and you just happen to know a SEO genius and a PPC expert.. well well.. then I am not the one to decide, but it could just be..
       
      Not counting on Lead Supreme, my ‘larger’ venture is something I am not going to get into too much now, however JUST as I was fretting over a lot of the details, the hows… the tools to what I had in mind literally appeared in my inbox and cost $97. If I understood correctly what they are offering and I can see how it lines up with what I am imagining, then we just may be on to something. Ok, when I start editing every other word of writing, it is time to pull the blog - (i left that in since it was a real non thinking typo, but I felt somehow appropo!)
       
      New corporation requires new hosting. Debating between my current host (been satisfied - very good personal response) and giving serious thought towards a friend recommended and best hosting awarded company. This part was delayed since the corporation was just ‘founded’. Tomorrow I decide.
       
      Some other exciting stuff - I am emailing back and forth with Rich Schefrens people - will divulge more on that later!

      • Oct 17th, 2007
      • POST MARATHON - #1 in the Series of Can I be Meaningful in Bite Sizes..

        Posted in Online Business, Personal Baby Steps, by admin
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      Ok, since I am having such a hard time staying awake finishing a post, I want to try a little blog mini-marathon. Its not that I INSIST on adding value to this Blog. I really wish I could just promote, pitch, make money, yada yada.. BUT…
       
      I JUST CANT help it. I apologize. I sit down to write something trite and meaningless, and I end up writing some real meaty piece.
       
      I am going to try a little experiment - can I create a quick series of short MEANINGFUL posts, keeping my voice, without having it take a day, and make you wait a week in between each one?
       
      Well if I go on for even ONE MORE SENTENCE here.. then clearly I cant.
       
      Marathon starts now. I hope the Ping Masters on High dont ban my blog..

      • Sep 28th, 2007
      • No Regrets. Part 1

        Posted in Personal Baby Steps, Things I learned Today, by admin
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    • As mentioned, I have just been put in the in the position to leave a position I have held for 7 years. Even if you live a full 120, 7 years is a NICE chunk of time! Even more so when you are also busy making/raising a family, enjoying your youth, trying to save for the future, etc..
       
      As a baseball fan, I find it ironic that this is my 2nd time in row leaving a position after 7 years. My 7th inning Stretch.
       
      7 years is long enough to build relationships, loyalty, and get into a comfortable groove. It has to be meaningful. It just HAS to. Can you imagine if you look back and say “I cant believe I spent 7 years of my life devoted to this x and I am no where to show for it?” Our time is too short.
       
      Other than building relationships with my employer, and others.. how can I look back at these years and attach meaning to them, so they dont just get jumbled up with another experience to move beyond.
       
      In a nutshell, and as usual since I am in a rush, I would say that I gained - MY FUTURE! I had left a desk job to start working from home doing affiliate marketing. Whatever the heck that meant. It was the year 2000! Google didnt even exist.. Yes, I was ‘trained’ to do the simple tasks I had to do, but the rest.. and there is such a lot of rest - came from my interest, and need to devour all on the subject. Even though I was not responsible from my employer to go beyond our original terms, it quickly became evident that there was so much possibility on the web, and I spent my own funds and my own time to build myself an education.
       
      Many IM’ers will tell you about how much they bought, how much money they spent, and how little they have to show for it. You can look at it that way. Or you can say look at how much you KNOW now that you didnt know. Didnt turn it into cash?? Thats unfortunate, but if you put it in perspective, every $67 ebook, every $247 course, every $29.95 membership has contributed to an education that puts you notches ahead of the regular population and how they view the Net. Dont ever forget that! Create a certificate if you must and hang it on your wall. I know I deserve it now.
       
      THE DOCTOR IS IN.
       

       

      Part 11 coming - have a good weekend!

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      • Sep 26th, 2007
      • Oh.My.Word. The Next Internet Millionaire Just MAY be ME!

        Posted in Next Internet Millionaire, Online Business, Personal Baby Steps, by admin
      • 4 Comments


    • Yes. It has been a few days since my last post. Yes I am way too busy to even give this post the ‘coverage’ it deserves.. Yes, if you are reading this in hopes to find out my review of The Next Internet Millionaire Episode 5, you will be rewarded..
       
      however.. what is the ONE theme that you have picked up from this BLOG??
       
      CORRECT!
       
      Who will be the ONE to discover ANDREA YAGER??
       
      Well my friends it is time to put the Pedal to the Medal and show what I am made of!
       
      The Summary.. oh we will get into more later:
       
      Lets say that I am a ’start up’. I have an angel investor who is putting a lot of money (for me) in me and investing in ME with hopes that he will have made a wise choice (DUH!) and that he will earn back his investment + profits!
       
      Said otherwise, I was not hired. I am not an employee. I am now the CEO of a new corporation. I selected the name and will have access to other available funds to be able to build my new business venture. The business plan is negotiable, since he is eager, open, and planning on taking my vast IM skills to leverage his current business model etc.. and see what becomes of it.
       
      So dream come true? Yes!
       
      Imagine someone gave you the funds to fly like a bird and soar? Imagine if someone offered you an equity share ALSO for doing that? Imagine if this person considers the people who clean your house a business expense since they help you be more productive?
       
      So.. if you had to KNOCK SOMEONE’S SOCKS OFF.. and make a BOATLOAD of money in a short period of time, that would continue to build into a greater stream of money,
       
      What would YOU do?
       
      I will Outsource like crazy.. so let me know if you have any skills to add to the mix and products we can promote!
       
      For those tuning in.. if you scream your head off loud enough, someone will hear. This guy did not approach me through the channels I may have expected.. but once you become accustomed to thinking you are ‘all that’, it rubs off in ways you may not be able to predict or anticipate. TRUST ME on THIS ONE. Be Vocal. Grab a Backbone. And be discovered.
       
      So speaking of people who missed the boat with their chance with me .. The Next Internet Millionaire Episode 5 was definitely the BEST so far. Meaning I think they nailed it this time for several reasons:
       
      1) The immunity challenge allowed us to see some people shine. Not only did Nico’s book title shine, but do did his personality! There is a story of a famous Rabbi who went to the doctor with his wife since her foot was hurting, and when the doctor asked what is the matter, the Rabbi replied “Our foot hurts”. Nico Pisani personified that ‘I am not for myself if we am not for each other’, and definitely scored big points with all .. Go NICO :) You better be reading this
       
      2) Team Challenge - ok, admittedly I was watching at some unG-dly hour and fell asleep during part of the speaker, but I think he is cute (which matters a lot to me since I’m shallow) and we were FINALLY able to see an execution in it’s entirety instead of just getting snippets of what they were trying to present. Except for the logo.. where there really was no competition. As others have mentioned, I too did not know which way Mr Comm would go. Although I was not completely surprised. Some people think he has a thing for Laura, I personally think he has it for Mr. Trippy.
       
      3) Elimination - as much as I like some of the other contestants that were already knocked off.. they did NOT have their Game On, so each week was sort of them cleaning out the filter to get to the good stuff.. Now each contestant that is knocked off will probably have less and less of a good reason to be eliminated other than being in the wrong seat at the wrong time. I could tell Christine schaap was SHOCKED to be off the show, and sure they found some average reason to sacrifice her, but it was really a waste of time to talk about, since in reality there was no choice. Jaime Luchuck was secure, JC would have ‘no pun intended’ been crucified if he went after Nico, and how could he kick out Laura Martin when their team DID a good job, and she was just allowed back in the game.. and been on the line so many times.. so process of elimination. The logic will probably continue as such, with rising tensions, and more nitpicking backstabbing nonsense to make it make sense until the last is standing..
       
      I dont know if you can tell but the only TV (via DVD on laptop) I have watched in the last several years has been a few seasons of 24, and the only Reality TV I have seen is a few episodes.. not seasons.. episodes of one American Idol, CharacterRoadTrip (who wouldnt watch those adorable twins :) ) and when I was visiting the states I watched a few episodes of ‘would my mom let me date you’ in the middle of the night. Love trashy US TV!! oh I take that back.. I have been forced to sit through a few episodes of Pimp my Ride and I cry every time. It’s really a GOOD show!
       

      • Sep 21st, 2007
      • How do YOU Make Your Money?

        Posted in Idea of the WEEK, Online Business, Personal Baby Steps, Things I learned Today, by admin
      • 3 Comments

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      Recently I was so overwhelmed that I had a visceral reaction.
       
      What caused me to feel soooo overwhelmed, when I am usually pretty lacking in the emotional department?
       

      THE POSSIBILITIES AND THE IMPOSSIBILITY!!!

       
      When you see the Web as I do, it is one cash vault after another…. and regardless of which direction you choose, you cant possibly leverage the web to do it ALL..
       
      With so many Web 2.0 Social Networking sites up..
       
      How many of you are taking advantage of them ALL to their fullest possibilities?
      How many are even scratching the surface?
       
      So imagine if you were aware of not only the vastness of all the WAYS to promote your ideas, but the IDEAS themselves were in great numbers… Can YOU imagine the feeling???!!
       
      It is IMPOSSIBLE to Hit all the POSSIBILITIES…
       
      Unless you are in a great groove and doing extremely well in one market.. here is a possible solution:
       
      If you have the capital to afford, you can hire several people to each specialize in a different area and hit as many areas as you can. Most people will work for a decent price since they will appreciate the education you are providing - you could possibly even get interns! Then if one area does particularly well, ramp it up a bit, and find which works for you. Now I know this is a focused persons nightmare, but I dont know if it works anymore to JUST be doing one thing or another.
       
      Many potential employers will ask you where do you want to see yourself in 3 or 5 years from now? Yes, we have all answered that question.. but with the fast cash being made on the latest web trends, the ONLY answer will be .. “if done right, whatever terms we make today will seem SO ridiculous in a few years from now”…. and if you are working on the web, whether as an employee, moonlighter, or BOTH, and this is NOT the case for you.. then you will have to live with all the money lost, and all the millionaires that were created while you trudged along slowly.
       
      So what is it YOU do?
       

      *Rat Race worker who moonlights on the web hoping it will take you somewhere
      *A WAHM doing some ecommerce site/service in order to be home with your children
      *An affiliate marketer with either a list, or PPC arbitrage, etc.
      *A niche marketer making money off your niche via affiliate sales, product creation, etc.
      *A consultant helping others get started online via specific services - IM in general, copywriting, etc..
      *A web person building sites, SEO, what have you
      *An adventurous on the fringe player making money with whatever is the latest trend
      *A Resale Rights marketer
      *An employee for a marketing company work in or out of an office
       
      or
       
      OTHER -
       
      I probably listed more options than there are people reading this blog :) .

      • Aug 29th, 2007
      • How to Negotiate Hollywood Style

        Posted in HOW TO's (NEWBIES...!!), Online Business, Personal Baby Steps, Things I learned Today, by admin
      • 2 Comments

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      Two days ago I was composing an email attempting to negotiate an ‘I am worth more than you want to pay me’ deal.
       
      I was pretty pleased with the results. Therefore, when my brother Jaron, king of the one liners, negotiator par excellance, hollywood mega bachelor, signed on IM, (ok usually that means Internet Marketing, but now it means instant messenger), I was ready to show it off.
       
      A word about my brother. There are very few people who you will meet in this life who possess his unique combination of talents. When he walks into a room, you NEED more oxygen, since his presence takes up so much of the space. No, he is NOT fat, he just commands attention. Yet he is also a best friend, generous, and very self aware. He can walk into well established companies , and without understanding their product, identify their weeknesees and how to improve. He is NOT a sounding board, rather a problem solver. Period.
       
      I saved our IM conversation. You can see my minimal input in (paranthesis)
       
      To start it off I told him I wrote an email I want him to take a look at….that I was trying to negotiate a better deal for myself..
       
      He knows no details, situation, etc.. but takes off…
       

      “rule one about negotiating”
      “and theres only one”
      “cant negotiate unless you can walk away”
      “if you can and i think you can, do it”
       
      (read this beauty of an email I wrote (not included here)).
       

      “you want my opinion?”
      “keep it in your journal and write something more appropriate”
      “he’s not your friend”
      “he sounds like a lover”
      “too much info in here”
       

      (but… we are friends)
       

      “but this email is not about friends”
      “its about biz”
      “you need to separate the two”
      “it has both sides in there”
      “and i know you are friendly”
      “but that doesnt make it sound professional”
      “you need to trim the fat, take out the emotion, take out advising him on what to do, and make it streamlined…”
      “here’s the deal etc”
      “what I want”
      “so just write one paragraph to him”
      “he knows the deal”
       

      (but he MAY not know..)
       

      “doesnt matter”
      “he doesn’t need to know”
      “you don’t need to tell him anything”
      “it sounds juvenile”
      “i dont understand the pay structure”
       

      (I write it one sentence)
       

      “for starters that needs to change”
      “listen”
      “you need to be compensated on results + time”
      “you need to be compensated on a sliding scale”
      “depending on whether it’s your idea or you are doing his”
      “if you come up with something your percentages are higher and your still paid your hourly wage to execute”
      “and if its his, you execute at a less percentage and the same hourly wage”
      “either way, you need to tell him what you want to make”
      “that number should be about 25% higher than what you’ll accept”
       

      (I say he is funny)
       

      “its true”
      “but lay it out in a few sentences”
      “people who are curt are taken more seriously”
      “tell him you’re out of there if these requests are not met”
      “tell him you have money coming in from other places now and it doesnt pay to keep doing his work when you’re making more from other sources”
       

      (I say lies. all lies (well mostly ;) ))
       

      “welcome to biz 101″
      “the art of negotiating”
      “thats why im great at it”
      “be strong and short”
       

      (arent you nervous to piss people off?)
       

      “never. liars speak too much”
      “i can always walk”
      “i say it in 3 sentences or less”
      “and tell them if this doesnt work out hopefully we can do business sometime when it does”
      “no hard feelings”
      “keep it simple”
      “if you talk too much they know you need them”
      “and its emotional”
      “keep emotion out of it”
      “otherwise your transparent”
      “it shows youre hurt”
       

      (you speak this way to women too?)
       

      “honestly? im the most honest person”
      “i truly never lie”
      “i dont need to”
      “and i tell them that”
      “i tell girls and people in biz, im too fantastic to lie to you”
      “you’re not worth me lying”
      “think about how strong that statement is”
      “i dont need to lie”
      “i dont care enough”
      “its such a strong position”
      “i just dont wont to be in business/relationship with someone who doesnt get me/it”
       

      (Yes.. the “I couldnt be bothered”.. my motto for over 2 decades)
       
      “but its not apathy”
      “its genuine”
      “theres a fine line”
      “its kindness”
      “not rude”
      “its strength”

       

      (I interrupt to mention something benign like an analogy of how it’s nicer for a girl to reject a guy than string him along or some personal issue but here is FOCUS for you)
       

      “lets not talk about that right now”
      “tell me what you want”
      “per hour and percentage”
      “what you want to make for the year”
      “and come in aggressive”
      “get his attention or you’ll be ignored”
      “then you want to own a piece of your ideas”
      “compensated with a greater percentage when the idea comes from you”
       

      (me: anyways I get what I get per hour if I am shining his shoes or giving him million $ ideas)
       
      “exactly”
       
      (approval! Score!)
       

      “dont explain that to him, he knows it already”
      “just tell him what you want”
      “and when he plays dumb and asks then you can tell him”
      “dont talk too much”
      “keep it short”
      “just stick to the facts and write it”
       

      Well what do you think I did in the end?
       
       
      … I sent my original email minus one line (it was 3:00 AM & I was not going to compose a new one)… … HOWEVER .. the lesson he offered has been heard loud and clear and as most lessons.. as you are educated and mature, you incorporate more of these tools for when you need them next and are better prepared.
       
      What do you think of this negotiating style? How do you negotiate?
       
      Here is a great quote from Liz Strauss from a comment on getting your worth
       
      “If there was a problem on their end, we negotiated how we might make it work by adjusting the job, not the price.”

      • Aug 24th, 2007
      • Why go out and Play when you can be Inside Blogging?

        Posted in Personal Baby Steps, Viral Marketing, by admin
      • 11 Comments

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      Did you ever notice how when you do things accidently, it is a lot easier to accomplish, than doing so on purpose? I know I was not the ‘inspiration’, yet I linked to Joanna, reminding her of what she calls thematic link posting, which inspired Liz to issue a challenge to weave blogs together with a theme.
       
      Wow. The whole world is out there for my picking, and now I dont know where to go.
       
      I am going to tell you something shocking, and hard to believe.
       
      There are people, in their mid-youth (as in not our grandparents), who dont own computers, and may even be scared of them. That means they only rely on their friends, family, neighbors, and random outings for experiences and life content. That is so 1860’s! I shudder at the thought!
       
      I am rapidly yanked out of my blog vortex and brought back to reality with the slamming of the door. It is my daughters last day of ‘day camp’ and I am invited to watch her perform. All the mommies are sitting against the wall of a cramped building lobby and watching our girls doing a few silly skits and I cant help but think.. this was all these girls have been talking about, thinking about, and working towards for the last 2 days straight. How small can someones’ life be?
       
      Is this new blog environment I am spending so much time in… the one that has me itching for her show to end,
      social or anti social? I use to crave leaving the computer for a few hours at the park with the children. That was before WE met!
       
      You (and there are many of YOU), have replaced my need to yap about the best sippy cups, which park do we prefer, and whats for dinner.
       
      Yet you dont know who I am.
       
      I think I have become a blog addict. I say I havent watched TV in a year, but that doesnt mean all my time is well spent!
       
      So as I am in the middle of the ‘bigness’ of it all - I am simultaneously smiling at my baby, watching him crawl around and making sure nothing enters his mouth, so I am constantly reminded of the ’smallness’ of it all.
       
      Perhaps the smallness of it all is what I share with YOU, but the bigness is the smile my baby reserves JUST FOR ME.
       
      I surf around some and realize that there really are no rules..
       
      and realize that the lines are blurred for largesse and smallesse - see I can even make up my own words -
       
      I witness a sampling:
       
      the smallness of a diary of a childs health / eating habits
       
      the middle size countdown for a pregnancy
       
      the bigger and put to better use education blog
       
      the eggs over easy too much information our paths would never cross if it werent for the web Blog
       

      The commercial size (and shameless plug for my twin brothers) USA TV Character Road trip blog
       
      The largness of a conversation blog (every post on this site is a conversation)
       
      The colossal (pun intended) get everyone involved and make a difference blog
       
      And How Opportunity Works is what has me up at 5:50 AM while my baby is ASLEEP, working to meet Liz’s deadline.
       

      I am not certain I succeeded at what was being asked, but at least I got no sleep, will be further behind on paying projects, and will scream at my kids all day tomorrow.

      • Aug 22nd, 2007
      • The Rule of Straight Lines, Focus, and The Next Internet Millionaire Ep1

        Posted in Next Internet Millionaire, Online Business, Personal Baby Steps, by admin
      • 14 Comments

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      Generalization coming up! I have heard multiple times from many individuals that ADD (attention deficit disorder) is required to acheive (online) success.. this is how it goes down:
       
      ADD stimulates creativity. Creativity stimulates product creation/development. Product creation/development generates $$$.
       
      As I have said, if you are looking to earn big money in the Internet Marketing field, you NEED to create. Unless you are a premier affiliate marketer, niche marketer, coach, etc., (and even so), this is a field which requires creation. I believe it is one of the single greatest reasons people have a hard time making a buck despite their efforts.
       
      They dont GET THAT.
       
      You NEED TO Create.
       
      There is however a little discrepancy in this logic however, since you ADD’ers are all over the place, and product development clearly requires focus and determination.
        Maybe that just answered it?

       
      Determination and Will should be able to overcome almost any obstacle, including the all too often and way over diagnosed ADD. I am still undecided about myself - perhaps I am just a creative, but very busy mom. Although not sure that excuse works for why I have 13 browser windows open at any given time.
       
      The first featured Internet Coach on the reality show of The Next Internet Millionaire was Mark Joyner, aka the ‘Godfather of Internet Marketing’ and creator of simpleology.
       
      (as an aside.. maybe you are wondering why I, first runner up, major upset, big disappointment, admit to watching the show, and by mentioning it, I am even promoting it. Yes, welcome to the world of a GROWN UP :) . I was actually surprised to feel ‘missed’ and the gaping hole where I should have been. I did not expect it. I dont think it is mutually exclusive to say I see where I could have added value and been an asset, and that I dont think I deserve it more than the others, (hmm well maybe). To the producers.. I would eventually appreciate a follow up email why I was 1st runner up. )
       
      How was that for shifting focus?
       
      Simpleology is known as ‘The Simple Science of Getting What you Want’. If I learned one RELEVANT thing from the first episode of the show it the rule of straight lines. You draw one dot on the left side of a page, and a right dot on the right side of the page. Then discuss your daily activities (unclear if they mean in general or when you start work), and see how far you veer off from creating a straight line from one dot to the other.
       
      All I have to say is one thing. OY VEY!!
       
      This is ME:
       
      Andrea Yager and the law of straight linesMy ‘law of straight lines’ resembles one of my childrens’ connect the dots worksheet!
       
      As I write this blog, I have a guy in the other room building a piece of furniture I bought, a friend over helping to organize the stuff going in it, writing a post concurrantly in 2 other blogs, writing a salesletter for a product I created, checking out the website who hired me for consultation, composing a list of requirements to another blogger who will be helping me tweak the other 2 blogs mentioned, checking out the emails for my part-time job, running a load of laundry and defrosting food for later, composing an update for my outsourcer for a new website, etc.. The baby is absent from this list, when he is usually a primary role, since this is my one morning a week that my Mom is watching him.
       
      Please respond with ONE way that you have worked to maintain better focus, and have less jags in that straight line. I will collect the list and make a post with your website included!
       
      Let me start:
       
      One way to stay focused:
       
      1. Deadlines are very helpful, so I pretend I am my own ‘boss’ and that I have to meet my deadline. I dont like to disappoint anyone, including myself!
       
      That may not be a good one, but hey.. this is why I turn to you..
       

      • Aug 17th, 2007
      • Are YOU Getting What you Are Worth?

        Posted in Personal Baby Steps, by admin
      • 7 Comments

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      Last night I had the pleasure of meeting with fellow NIM ‘loser’ (as if baby), Gail Greenberg. Yes, here in Jerusalem, Israel.
       
      I had a post ‘in waiting’ for the right moment and good ol’ Gail has inspired me to share part of it now.
       
      Gail and I discussed how we are each working on putting ourselves out there. You cant believe the stuff this girl has up her sleeve. I am talking serious internet SUCCESS! As internet marketers, we can see potential online $$ value in every idea/business/concept, etc..
       
      So Gail wants to know… why am I so embarrased to charge what I am worth??
       
      I hide behind potential partnerships - Any time someone mentions some interesting niche topic, I never tire of thinking of potential partnerships and money to be made. I figure people are not interested in paying and here is a chance to get 50% of a business instead of a small sum consulting. Yet, since they have no idea what they are receiving, and yes - dont pay for it! - they dont value what I suggest and shrug it off..
       
      If I charged them what the information is worth, perhaps they would take me more seriously?
       
      This is a big ‘woman’ problem (sorry for generalizing). How often have you given free advice, done a friend a favor, and not received pay for it. How often have you been EXPECTED to (I almost lost a friend over this, when she expected me to offer to work for her for free, and ironically I would have (but shouldnt have) but didnt want to impose my service on her in case she was not interested!)
       
      Charlie Cook (yes a MAN!), in his Marketing for Success Blog, nails it with Why Women Dont Make What they Should. Basically, women feel guilty asking for pay, and see themselves as problem solvers.
       
      Gail really gave me a pick me up. She is more determined than I am for me to recognize my worth, my mad marketing skills, how ridiculously valuable they are to most businesses who cant translate their offline/online businesses into the success, and how much people were really taken with me. True her experience was with the voting for The Next Internet Millionaire Reality Show (for which I was first runner up).
       
      Yes, she insisted that people really respond to me, and will really respond to me. I caved and said ‘aww shucks’ (more! more! more!)
       
      So this is how I am feeling now ;) ..
       

       
      Thanks Gail… right back at ya!
       
      Other women entreupreuners…
       
      Are YOU Getting what you are worth?? What advice would you offer?
       

      • Aug 6th, 2007
      • Keeping Up With The Blogging Joneses!!

        Posted in Blogging, Online Business, Personal Baby Steps, Things I learned Today, by admin
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      Fortunately and Unfortunately I need your help. The last few days my blog had some server issues and now that I am able to post, my baby decided to sleep 8 hours in a row last night (yah!), leaving me on the verge of a breast infection today (blah!). I am in pain, and waiting for the tylenol to do what it can. The added bonus - my car has no a/c and I live in the Middle East and I was out all day in 100F, so I am just barely alive. Can you help me finish my thoughts today (or buy me a new car :)!)?
       
      Over dinner a few nights ago, there was a conversation between myself and Others who DONT get ‘the whole web thing’.
       
      They agreed that when starting any new business venture, online or offline, solid good advice is to look around at others in your field, either in your ‘niche’ or just generally successful, and imitate them.
       
      This is not to suggest common practice where I live - that you open a ‘felafel store’ next door to another ‘felafel store’ since they appear to be raking it in. :)
       
      However, if you visualize the internet as it is.. the biggest strip mall EVER.. (you know what I mean by strip right?? I am out of the USA so long I just want to make sure this is the proper term! ;) ).. that means we may all be opening up stores right ‘next to each other’ but the ENTIRE WORLD is our potential customer. That leaves plenty to go around, and room for very healthy competition!
       
      The conversation continued…
       
      Fine!! Agreed. Free Market Economy. Enough to go around. Snoop on your competitors, interview their friends and friends of their friends and milk them for details, do what you have to, but…
       
      Why link to someone who is your competitor??
       
      (Disclaimer - I cant shine the shoes of those ’supposed competitors’ but a healthy self esteem cant hurt, eh?)
       
      Reebok and Nike / Pepsi and Coke / Walmart and K-Mart - competitors for generations. Can you picture them helping the other out? That may have saved them a lot of Advertising money!
       
      Naturally a Blog, with nothing to sell, except the persona behind it, cannot exist in a vacuum.
       

      Are we reaching who we want/need to by reaching out to each other?

       
      To be perfectly honest, I could be completely off here. As cathartic and enjoyable as I find blogging, it was (is?) intended to be another piece in the puzzle towards helping me reach my online goal$$. I am currently not in a position, with a young family, to be writing only for pleasure (of course it helps that it offers me pleasure). Are you?
       
      How do YOU explain this unique online relationship?
       
      P.S - as I was searching for my last link love…. check out this post (will open new window). How ironic to stumble across Garry’s post as I was writing mine..and frankly a little LOT terrifying.
       
      ~~andrea

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